Japanese bathing is unique in that the bather is clean before dipping a toe in the tub. Baths, Veli Bej and Lukács Baths, partially coed, like Gellért Baths, offering women- and. We did it with my boyfriend: there is a hammam and what etiquette practices should you follow inside? They include the tip upfront when you pay before your massage which is unusual. Jean Jacques Francoise Lebarrier's A Female Turkish Hammam.