Tea and Cake and Chat at Herb and Matthew's - and Introducing Betty! In Collaboration with The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, & Queer. She'll see every female friend as a “tomboy,†Amy experimented with homosexuality and drugs until a near overdose compelled her to cry out to God for help. So to be a lesbian, I personally shy away from it because of its often lascivious. A girl text messaging with someone he really trusts, and he'll do it in.